If allowed, and many do, cell phones invade lives. Even in the middle of sex, a partner will hear his phone ring and consider answering it.

As our personal communication tool, we set up preferences, we track who’s calling through caller ID, we know who called from our call log, we retrieve calls we made, we have conversations through text messaging if we don’t want to be overheard and better yet, we can check our mobile browser without a trace. If we miss a call, voice mail kicks in. We can then choose to listen to the voice mail and call back in privacy.

Little wonder this handy dandy personal tool is the number one device used in cheating relationships.

There isn’t a slicker device that provides instant communication, written and verbal, and can be fully secured via a password or by wearing it on your body 24/7.

Ok. Cards exist to crack into cell phones and voicemails. Besides being illegal, you need to be a little tech savvy and realistically, who uses these extreme measures? So, if you are suspicious about who’s calling, you are left with deciphering his cell phone usage and changes in your husband’s behavior.

You know something’s wrong when the hair at the back of your neck bristles when hearing his cell phone ring. It wouldn’t be such an event, if he wasn’t so secretive with his cell phone. You have this creepy feeling that he could be cheating.

Check out these 12 signs of cheating with a cell phone: [click to continue and contribute...]

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Valentine’s Day!

Why? Well, it’s a day for lovers and sometimes the lover is not the spouse.

A Private Investigator (PI) will tell you that of all the days in the year, this one is guaranteed to flush out any husband’s illicit relationship.

Think about it. Who wants to be left out when expressions of love abound? Nobody, and certainly not a mistress.

So, it’s a tough day for a cheating husband. He needs to pay enough attention to his wife as to not alert her of his affair, and at the same time satisfy his mistress. He’d probably like to clone himself!

He has to buy two sets of flowers and chocolates and then figure out how to divvy up the day. Should it be lunch with the mistress and dinner with the wife? Or, would it be best to have an early dinner with the mistress and a late one with the wife? Would a discreet phone call to the mistress be enough or would she expect more?

Whatever he decides, he will do something. And when he does, there could be a PI waiting in the proverbial bush. [click to continue and contribute...]

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Cleaning House

by Susan Kirschling Jan,14,2010
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Regardless if New Years is purported to be a great time for reflection of the past year and the time to make promises to yourself of what you’ll do in the upcoming year, I prefer to think about house cleaning.
Not the get-out-your-vacuum-cleaner variety. I’m talking about cleaning up the things you wanted to do last [...]

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Cheating Personality?

by Leah Jones-Hartwick Jan,8,2010

Recently I was on an airport shuttle bus with a bunch of people returning from vacation. The conversation was constant and boisterous. I heard a woman out of the blue say, “Hey, how could Tiger Woods cheat on that beautiful wife of his?” A loud male voice responded, “Because he can.” The small crowd roared [...]

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Endorsements No Guarantee for Integrity

by Susan Kirschling Dec,29,2009
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Rumor has it that Tiger Woods is offering his wife, Elin Nordegren, the mother of their two children, $5 million if she agrees to stay with him for two more years and an additional $55 million top up for her prenuptial agreement.
Tiger’s trying to compensate for his promiscuity. But what can money buy? Already wealthy, [...]

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Top 3 Warning Signs of an Online Affair

by Susan Kirschling Dec,15,2009
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Waking up in the middle of the night to the faint sound of tapping emanating from a computer keyboard, you wonder what could be so captivating to keep your husband preoccupied on his computer at this hour.
Crawling out of bed, you make your way to the home office. Once he recovers from the surprise of [...]

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